In the midst of the maid topic..yesterday i felt like turning into Incredible HULK bcoz of wat my darling maid did...i cooked for buka yesterday..hubby wanted jemput2 udang n for our main course i made spaghetti's carbonara..bcoz most of the ingredients was prepared my my 'darling' maid earlier..i managed to settle evertythg an hour b4 buka...
Come buka...hubby as usual makan jemput2 x hingat..so he did not want his spaghetti till after maghrib..which later became after the news..so just before the news ended i heated my spaghetti's sauce...while stirring i noticed that the sauce has become runny..unlike the way i made it before..before jumping to any conclusion...i checked the sauce again just to make sure...i summoned my 'darling' maid...
moi : L*** kenapa kuah ni jadi cair..kamu letak air ke??'D' maid : ye kak..td tgk..pekat sgt!!!"moi : hah!!! napa kamu letak air..saya tahu lah camna rupa dia...mmg sepatutnya pekat!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (at this point i was turning into incredible hulk!!!!!!!!)
'D' maid : .................................. (senyap..x tau nak respond apa...)waduh!!!!!!!! so endingnya hubby terchenta pon x makan banyak...ayat dia lagi best "mushroom soup pon x cair camni!!!!!!!!!!!"
Ish tension nya gue...........dlm dada terbakar2....nasib baik puasa..nilah akibatnya dpt maid yg suka memasak + suka memandai2...waduh!!!!!!!!
Felt like goin on M16 mode...but tak kuasa..so i ended up lepaking with bam-bam n hubby outside..dahlah yesterday the air was like soo still ...
i know most ppl wud say..jgn baik sgt ngan maid..don't let her cook..don't let her do this n that...but sometimes i just cannot find it in my heart to b very2 strict or be very distant...i treat them as a human being n as a domestic help rather than being my maid...in hope that god will see that im trying hard not to manupilate his creation also..i try n try to constantly remind myself that..they r human n entitle to make mistakes..n who am i to judge them as they r equal to us in God's eyes...bcoz of that..i try as much as i can not to scold her in front of anyone..bcoz it could happen to me oso..n how would i feel...God is always fair...n though i try as much as i can... to not let her cook..but sometimes time is not always on my side....so i believe that ALLAH is always there...even though i do every thing perfectly..if its my fate..it will be..thou i hope n pray it won't ...ive been raised by maids since i was very young..but alhamdulillah i was not attached to them..infact one of them r still very close to my family...she looked after me..cooked my food,attended to my whines..braided my hair...
Having a maid makes ur life easier no doubt...the time given is where we can utilise to b a maid,wife partner to our husband..of course our cooking helps the bond go stronger..but i would not say that letting maid cook will make our family haywire...the most important thg in a relationship and bonding of a family is to allocate time for our special ones..to not get stressed over domestic thgs..before having a maid..my life was sooo hectic..as soon as i stepped into my hse..it would be chores..chores..harris..chores..harris...harris..chores..never ending ending chores..i could barely smile..n me n hubby would constantly disagree on the slightest issue..it was tense...maybe bcoz we had a baby n it was our first time..i wouldn't say i could not manage w/o a maid coz i did survive one year plus 7 months of our marriage w/o one..
So basically..just be nice in hope that God will repay our kindness in some way....pray..pray n pray nothg bad will happen to our family...no one would wished to be born a maid..that is why sometimes they r lazy..bcoz at work pon sometimes we have our lazy mode....im not trying to defend them..all im trying to say is that..sometimes we r arrogant in a sense that we see them as low grade..but in God's eyes..we r equal..who knows between them n us..their grades r better than us....imagine our maids waving at us when they enter paradise n we r in the midst of being thrown into hell..hish..mintak dijauhkan..ok now i dah mengarut...time to continue work...
