Weekend Part 1

Since im unable to download Picasa at d office i cant compile the photo's at one go..thus i have to break this weeks ramblings in two entries..if not i'tll be endless.. The anticipated weekend started off with attending the solemnization of weezal's cuzzie at Beverly Heights...
Twas a simple affair..but i adored the bride's outfit to bits..done by the famous Jovian who is oso a good fren of hers...


The glowing bride...(pic credit from azra's cam)

My padawan behaved extremely well that nite..so me had a good time...he even met up with "Abg Impak Maksima"..who is oso a very2 good fren of the bride..

"u soo look familiar..."


"naah..could b somebody else..."

We had a good time..

Then after a few open hse on Saturday we attended the reception that nite... and again I fell in love with the bride's gown..designed by....u know who...he's designs r magic..c for urself..
(photo taken from my SIL fb...my photo ta cantik...)



Below r the photo's of once upon a time bride n groom at this nice reception..(wearing their reception attire oso..hehe)

PotLuck Open Hse

As u guys are well informed..there' ll b an open hse potluck at my place done together wif ma school betsie's.. the details r as listed below..so pls..pls do come my SMSJ'ians friends including the juniors hajja, iera..wawa..ezra..(yg lain nak dtg..dtglah..dah nama pon open hse) kang ckp tuan rumah x ajak...tp sy mintak maaf dahulu jika tak sempurna..maklumlah rumah cinonet..hehe n biasalah baru nak mula hidup...so very basic lah...

PotLuck Open Hse
Date : 19 October 2008 (Sunday)
Time : 1230 pm
Venue : USJ
(pls sms for details..xkan nak publish add kat sini kot)

Ur attendance is greatly appreciated

Why..oooh why...


Ok..I wanna update..but as usual am tooo lazy plus finding bloghopping more enticing...i guess its human nature that we always complain about our life..not exciting..no money..endless workload..piling chores...having unsatidfied material needs ...LV..FENDI...PRADA..HERMES..TODS?? wher r u in my wardrobe? others hav u..while I don't..sigh..sigh..sigh..and as a normal human being oso we always tend to compare with the likes of us..or those who have more than us rather than those who think owning a BONIA is something... mind u..don't be offended when i say BONIA..BONIA is an expensive brand nowadays..u can easily see RM700 on thier price tags.. n my mom has a couple of BONIA bags.. just that the dotter loves to eye for more exorbitant labels..konon more exquisite la the design..and the mother n fatherr debt free while the dotter is ..well lets not get into that subject.. in simple words..how i wish i could follow in her footsteps on this.. ni not like mother like dotter..

A friend of mine mention the other day..the not soo best part of acquiring designer handbags is the fact that even Liz Clairborne (LC) seems unappealing anymore...she used to love LC..well to my dear fren.. u hit that note rite..I myself used to love LC's design..(LC..hehe is oso my wedding caterer..haha setapp!!!!(out of context jap)) the designs r nice n the price is soo affordable..same goes wen u start to buy jewellary at SELBRAN (ni my case lah)..the Poh Kong..TOMEI n gang all hav the same fate e as LC..where as..they sell nice jewellary too..duh!! It's hard wen u set a standard for urself..I went into JEDAN at PKNS yesterday browsing thru their baju kurung..I fell in love with a few of thier designs..price tag RM18**!!! ...can u imagine if we start buying our baju kurung at that price tag?? maybe u guys tak lah kot..but me..nanti yg RM200 Baju kurung will seem all plain..thank god I brought my sanity along... I still wear the below RM50 baju kurung to work n it does not bother me if ppl say its cheap..im still comfortable in it.. I wear pass down clothes..my MIL gave me a lot of her clothes that she cud not fit in..n im ok with it..on that part..Im still ok..alhamdulillah..the only part that I wish I could churn back is the obsession on designer handbasg n jewellary.. Im still ok with cheap shoes but,,hehe there's a but..providing that it comes from a reputable brand..i'd anyday buy shoes that cost RM20 from Vincci or the sort rather than RM 20 from.. the xyz label..

i hope that one day if I have a dotter..she will not follow in my footsteps..hope she'd be more like her tok mama in this sense rather than me..im a bad influence..haha these things r heridity...


P/s : just ignore my ramblings..tah hape2..must b PMS....






Kisah Raya dengan sehelai baju kurung hijau

Before i get to the raya-raya story, i'd like to share with u guys about my Baju Raya story..u know how hard it is to get a good tailor without having to pay a bomb for thier services..apparently my tailor is in JB..n her charges for me had never changed from my secondary school days till now..but the prob is how often do we go back to Jb..n the fact that Im carrying post pregnancy weight does not help at all..I had to alter my baju numerous times..still my recent Baju raya looks 'gedoboh'..mana taknya measure in April..nak pakai Oktober..i'd lost a few kilos along the way...sigh..sigh..anyway nak stroy pasal baju lain..not this one..

I scouted out for a few tailors n ended up at a boutique called Anggun in PKNS...(i have to reveal the name coz sakit hati sgt) i asked bila boleh siap..dia ckp a week before raya..so 2 weeks before i called the tailor...(manalalah tau..my normal tailor normally siapkan baju before time..) so she said.."lum siap lagi..next week siap"... so the last week before raya..i called like 3 or 4 times..she kept meddling with the date...i did tell her..im going back this friday..so she said ok..ok..the last date yang she gave me..ambik after maghrib on friday..(ni pon after ntah brapa kali i called...) so i pon dok question myself..lambat sgt ke aku hantar...when i went there with hubby after maghrib the tailor was not there..so i tanya lah staff yang lain..dgn selambanya ckp.."tak siap lagi lah kak...." (sambil tunjuk..pieces of kain yg baru dipotong...) aku n hubby pon nak naik angin lah..called the tailor she said.."jalan-jalan lah dulu within 45 mins siap" walaupon i did not believe she cud finish it..me n hubby jalan2 lah dulu..then after an hour we came back..betul pon x siap..we waited kat sana until 11pm..PON TAK SIAP..weeezal x yah cita lah dah kuar asap kat telinga..smpai fed up..dia ckp "hantar kat rumah lah..tau tak we all nak balik dah.." dia ngan muka selamba ckp..ok..ok.. Padahal baju yg i hantar buat tu bukan susah mana..mini kurung bukannya suh letak beads ke apa..cuma ada lining je...DIA CHARGED RM150.00 oKKkk!!!!!

So at about 1 ish AM dia called nak hanta baju..sesat lak tu..suh aku amik kat Shell..mintak maaf, weezal kuar g fill up gas n all takdenya aku nak melayan ambik..so last2 dia jumpa pon rumah..bukanya susah sgt...bila jumpa haram sorry pon xde n muka tersengih2..bila i mtk reduction dia kurangkan RM20 je...aku malah nak gaduh so masuk rumah tgk jahitan dia mmg nak menyirap lah ngan cutting x betul n all..imagine 3/4 jam nya kerja nak charge aku RM130...uish mmg tensen..so i texted her the next day ckp ill send the baju back by sunday 5th..dia pon reply ok....come monday 6th aku pon pergilah nak alter..smpai kat kedai TUTUP!!!!!! WTF!!! aku mmg angin lah..ckp lah awal2 ko tutup!!! mghabiskan minyak gua je...try calling her..ntah ulu mana dia dok xde signal lah plak..huish..tahap kesabaran ku yang slalunya indicatornya paling max susah nak jejak dah blow..so smpai la ni tak hantar alter..saturday ni kot..bwk hubby biak dia bebel sket..lakiku kan cengih! Endingnya x pakai pon baju tu..

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Bcoz my entry on my baju raya panjang sgt u guys enjoy lah pics of my raya ye..We raya in JB the first day at my parents..then we went to my in laws..then visit weezal's tok on his mom's side then we scooted off to muar...(yoHoooo!!).. harrs cranky lah during raya..nak melekat aje..tensen gue...hehhe..maybe becoz terkejut tgk banyak sgt new faces kot...


Us minus the lil' one


meet the parents


Us with mak n ayah..

My crancky lil boy in the car..nak balik MUO...

2nd raya mmg sgt meriah lah bcoz we had sort off like an open hse at my uncles n org mmg MAHA ramai...my maid smpai xleh nak bercakap punyalah dia penat..sian pulak i tgk..esok nya dia terus demam..
(we all mmg raya kat my uncles not my grandma's, umah grandma utk tido je..activity berpusat semua kat sini)..


My cuzzies n bro aka the rewang team..




The tent outside my uncles'

Then malam we all went to my tok sedara's place..ni pon tradition every second raya buat celebration..kat kg. Pinang Seribu..actually my grandma was born ere n oso grew up here smpai lah dia wed my arwah atok..the hse is called Istana Hinggap n penah masuk ASTRO pasal tempat2 sejarah ke..lupa (.my great grand father baik ngan Sultan Johor so according to my tok..Sultan selalu singgah umah dia ni..


Istana Hinggap


The coloniol bungalow


The scene inside the tent ..packed..(semua sedara mara..but yet i x kenal pon semua!)


My relatives on my grandma's side mmg ramai..My great grand fatehr had 5 wives (no.. he did not marry all at once..one died married another... camtulah...) so my grandma had like berbelas2 adik beradik n one of my grandma's brother had 17 chlidren or was it 21 this children lah yg dok istana hinggap ni n thier siblings lah yg organise year by year ths event...my grandma had 7 children yang lain pon lebeh kurang so that is how BIG my family is..hehhe mg x kenal semua kalau langgar bahu haram leh bertumbuk kot...


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Third Raya balik KL coz my father's brother tak brapa sihat dah warded in Gleneagles for a months plus..so we headed back KL n tinggalkan Muar..huhu sedey plak balik cepat... 4th day g visit Weezal's tok n relatives...


Us with Tok Miah

Oklah sbb dah panjang berjela sgt my entry,,will continue with more raya stories in my next entry..before that we'd like to wish all (including my silent readers)


SELAMAT HARI RAYA
MAAF ZAHIR BATIN
* SELAMAT BER OPEN HSE*

Datang lah rumah saya kalau sudi..sentiasa tebuka

nak update..

nak update..but too much work...sabar ye ppl..hehhe

Ramblings on a bored day....

The urge to blog is there..the entries r like a spreadsheet in my mind, but..im just too lazy..hahhah..with a ew more days of work to go..before the hoildays..(i feel like dancing on the strike of the word holiday!!) lots need to be done..i have to pack..have'nt even made the list of thgs to bring yet...ths year will by my raya turn..(woHoooOOoOO!!!) mom n dad being very understanding has stated that ths year we'll b in JB for the frst half of the day (which means that i can visit my inlaws oso on the first raya) They said..we'll raya in JB dulu, if not u x dpt raya umah ur inlaws or u mite have to make two trips back n forth!!! ....so basically after the prayers n salam-salaman, makan-makan session..camwhoring session...my parents will scoot off to our beloved Kg..Muar..(thou we don't have the kg. atmosphere at maktok's..coz she lives in Muar town..) it's still a kg to me...far from the hustle bustle of the city...we will visit my inlaws..only then balik Muar...(see im very considerate what..hahhaa xdelah raya pertama kat my side je thou its my turn ths year..) * in hope that hubby will be accommodating wen it's his turn..(thou i have to give credit to my parents, mom specially for helping me easen the situation)..i know how she is with first raya not being in muo..specially wen we're not celebrating it with my grandparents on dad's side...(tak penah2 raya kat JB if their not around..thank you mom n dad..love ya!!!). ...albeit the fact that my grandparents on my dad's side won't b in JB ths raya coz celebrating it inKL...

Basically i thk by fourth day of Raya i'll b back in KL..visiting my grandparents n grandparents inlaw (is there such a term??) hehheheh....n my other relatives..best sket coz mom n dad will b around so i just tag along je...

Cita-cita pasal raya...do u know that i have not purchased a single kuih raya yet!! let alone buat...hehhahahahh that's how teruk i am...i plan to do it in JB..(kata rumah dekat ngan angsana..) other than that..i have to collect my baju at the tailor..n yet to find selendang for all my baju...huarggggghhh!!!!! now im realizing that theres soo much to do with soo little time....

On another note..i just got off the phone with my ex-staff...story mory, gossip-gossip about my old company..before we ended the conversation we exchanged hari raya wishes n all then the line was passed to a few of my other staff..all wanting to wish me Selamat Hari Raya...mak terharu u!!!! I miss them....i MISS SPNB....not the workload thou (hahahhhaha) but the environment..been there for almost five years what...heheh so to those in SPNB reading my blog..specially to K.azie, yati,wan,shahril,saiful,sayful,lisa,su and semua budak2 Project Development not forgetting En. Mustaffa Al Bakri Saidin...heheh

SELAMAT HARI RAYA n MAAF ZAHIR BATIN...

Datang lah teratak buruk saya....

The racer...


Not in the mood to update about any buka posa event..not that it was'nt nice or anythg...just that i wanna share wif u guys the photo's of my padawan in action...we (hubby n moi) noticed that he just absoloutly loves to play with any car's steering wheel...c him in action in our team KAZZEN's car...

muka kerek..Priceless..heheh

Ooo ok now i found my balance..

wathca looking at!!

future racer..(hmm ths is how it feels like)

mama n me..hehe

when i grow up..

i wanna b a star wanna be famous..

Cheeky..
trying to scrutinize every button available...

Al-fatihah

Condolences to Didie again on the lost of her beloved father yesterday....(I was informed by rozie on this..so i don't have the details..) AL-FATIHAH

Moga didie tabah menghadapi dugaan yang maha hebat ini....

Kisah maid ku plak....

In the midst of the maid topic..yesterday i felt like turning into Incredible HULK bcoz of wat my darling maid did...i cooked for buka yesterday..hubby wanted jemput2 udang n for our main course i made spaghetti's carbonara..bcoz most of the ingredients was prepared my my 'darling' maid earlier..i managed to settle evertythg an hour b4 buka...

Come buka...hubby as usual makan jemput2 x hingat..so he did not want his spaghetti till after maghrib..which later became after the news..so just before the news ended i heated my spaghetti's sauce...while stirring i noticed that the sauce has become runny..unlike the way i made it before..before jumping to any conclusion...i checked the sauce again just to make sure...i summoned my 'darling' maid...

moi : L*** kenapa kuah ni jadi cair..kamu letak air ke??
'D' maid : ye kak..td tgk..pekat sgt!!!"
moi : hah!!! napa kamu letak air..saya tahu lah camna rupa dia...mmg sepatutnya pekat!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (at this point i was turning into incredible hulk!!!!!!!!)
'D' maid : .................................. (senyap..x tau nak respond apa...)

waduh!!!!!!!! so endingnya hubby terchenta pon x makan banyak...ayat dia lagi best "mushroom soup pon x cair camni!!!!!!!!!!!"

Ish tension nya gue...........dlm dada terbakar2....nasib baik puasa..nilah akibatnya dpt maid yg suka memasak + suka memandai2...waduh!!!!!!!!

Felt like goin on M16 mode...but tak kuasa..so i ended up lepaking with bam-bam n hubby outside..dahlah yesterday the air was like soo still ...

i know most ppl wud say..jgn baik sgt ngan maid..don't let her cook..don't let her do this n that...but sometimes i just cannot find it in my heart to b very2 strict or be very distant...i treat them as a human being n as a domestic help rather than being my maid...in hope that god will see that im trying hard not to manupilate his creation also..i try n try to constantly remind myself that..they r human n entitle to make mistakes..n who am i to judge them as they r equal to us in God's eyes...bcoz of that..i try as much as i can not to scold her in front of anyone..bcoz it could happen to me oso..n how would i feel...God is always fair...n though i try as much as i can... to not let her cook..but sometimes time is not always on my side....so i believe that ALLAH is always there...even though i do every thing perfectly..if its my fate..it will be..thou i hope n pray it won't ...ive been raised by maids since i was very young..but alhamdulillah i was not attached to them..infact one of them r still very close to my family...she looked after me..cooked my food,attended to my whines..braided my hair...

Having a maid makes ur life easier no doubt...the time given is where we can utilise to b a maid,wife partner to our husband..of course our cooking helps the bond go stronger..but i would not say that letting maid cook will make our family haywire...the most important thg in a relationship and bonding of a family is to allocate time for our special ones..to not get stressed over domestic thgs..before having a maid..my life was sooo hectic..as soon as i stepped into my hse..it would be chores..chores..harris..chores..harris...harris..chores..never ending ending chores..i could barely smile..n me n hubby would constantly disagree on the slightest issue..it was tense...maybe bcoz we had a baby n it was our first time..i wouldn't say i could not manage w/o a maid coz i did survive one year plus 7 months of our marriage w/o one..

So basically..just be nice in hope that God will repay our kindness in some way....pray..pray n pray nothg bad will happen to our family...no one would wished to be born a maid..that is why sometimes they r lazy..bcoz at work pon sometimes we have our lazy mode....im not trying to defend them..all im trying to say is that..sometimes we r arrogant in a sense that we see them as low grade..but in God's eyes..we r equal..who knows between them n us..their grades r better than us....imagine our maids waving at us when they enter paradise n we r in the midst of being thrown into hell..hish..mintak dijauhkan..ok now i dah mengarut...time to continue work...

BUKA-BUKA

Since the entry with on the buka puasa event has been covered here
Id just like to upload photos of the event and after...(sbb nya malas...) hehehehe tp nak update..hehehe


Mr. n Mrs

Couple contoh

The four MOMsIka enjoying her food..heheh

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Back from buka..ika n associates came to my hse to take her maid..(she left her maid at my place during our buka session) sure selonok dua-dua minah tu bercerita...heheheh



Bam..bam wif his new high chair..oo n little sarah



ika n kids with bam.bam n ika's fwen

end of story..wanted to update more..but blogger mcm hampeh...so till then tada

From the small kitchen of mrs. rizal..

hi folks..happy fasting..im sure ur all in slooopy mood unless ur not fasting..hehhe so wat did u guys have for ur buka feast yesterday?

mine was all cooked by moi..bangga ni..hehheh walaupon x seberapa..ngeh.ngeh..ngeh..my parents r in town so I invited them over for buka yesterday.. I managed to serve them Popiah goreng..(had to make 2 versions...) one specially for hubby as he's not use to have the fillings like my mom makes..had to call MIL for the sambal reciepe (yeah..im that lousy in the kitchen dept...but takpelah kan..x tau tanya..!)


this is my typical filling..for hubby's version gotta have cabbage n long beans




home made popiah..mind the vadeh(is this how u spell it??) brought by mom..hubby likes it soo much that mom always buys it if she's from bangi..


Then we had spaghetti bolegnese..for our main course n finally triffle for dessert...all conjured by me..(yelah..thou there's always the recipe for guidelines...u hav to b a bot more creative to get the edge..heheh) but sorry folks..forgot to snap photos as i was too busy munching....ooh n i forgot to add..i took a solid 5hours to settle all...(i know..i know..LEMBAPnya..hehe im still an amatur in the cooking dept..sigh)

now i dunno wat to cook today..coz of the limited time back from work to buka time...wat can i cook in 2 hrs aside from fried egg n sardines??


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UNRELATED


bam..bam watching BEE MOVIE with papa B4 bedtime..soo cute (to me lah..)heheh

I've been tagged

5 TABIAT BURUK TIME SEKOLAH
1. late..always late..late to wake up..late for EVERYTHING..
2. suka ponteng prep..yeah u guys can laugh out loud bout this..am sure u guys have 1001 stories related..(whatever it is..b a bit discreet..MIL reads my blog too..)hhehe kang kantoi betapa teruk nya DIL dia dulu..hahhahahahah

3 FAVOURITE SUBJEK ANDA... KENAPA??
1. Maths ( i love calculations..but hate accounting ; go figure!!)
2. English ( bcoz it was KIND OFF easy..hehehe)
3. Add maths (refer to no.1..thou i did not get a distinction for it)

3 SUBJEK ANDA TAK SUKA... KENAPA??
1. History (I hate antiques..period!!)
2. Accounts (coz the teacher bore me..)
3. Biology...creepy..!!

MENARIK PADA KAMU...?
I THINK..im a good listener..witty..n a good bargain hunter (yeah..u can't connect these 3..but lantaklah..)

KAMU PALING SUKA...?
sleeping with bam bam n hubby wen its raining outside..i could doze off for eons...

ANDA TIDAK BOLEH HIDUP TANPA...???
hubby n bam bam of course..oo n my other immediate family...

SETIAP MALAM SEBELUM TIDUR SIAPA YANG ANDA HUBUNGI..?

depends but most likely;

i. hubby if he's still at work..
ii. hubby if he's gone back to work..
iii.hubby if he's out with his frens..
iv.hubby if he's outstation..

(so harris will hav to brace himself..as this routine will commence on him as soon as he's away from me..)

MANGSA TAG KAMU
1. wet tissues
2. ngantukalways
3. little dewa
4. lady Quixotic
5. handbags n evs
6. Mood Baik Girl
7. Sera mera
8. Strangely charming
9. Ninieheart
10. Quite a story to tell

BORED..

yup i know...in the midst of ppl changing their blog skin..i pon nak nyibuk..hahah bored..bored with life actually..bored with work to b honest...my skills r not utilized here..i feel mopped..sometimes i feel sooo suffocated...my ritual of happiness is when i c my bam..bam...argghhhh wat's happening to me??....must b one of those days...don't worry peeps..ill be alrite...just need to focus on something else...sayang: i need a weekend retreat..pls..pls..pls

How I wish i could...

Have u ever been in a position whereby u wish u could slurp back wat u just uttered??....It happened to me recently...in my defense of being unintentionally offended by someone i jolted before i cud even think...That has always been my problem..commencing thgs before thinking...its like my mind works separately from my heart..just like an individual machine that works by itself...as soon as I uttered somethg... it hit me hard that i had offended another party..the party that I least would like to hurt...although i did apologies profously...and matters were resolved..(it wasn't a big deal to the other party..or was it?? ) but i could not get myself to stop brooding over it...it just comes in and out of my mind...In my defense, I did not mean any harm..nor did i intend to make any other party feel any discomfort or have the slightest pinch of offense...i perceive this as my trait of weakness a weakness that i must work on..but i always believe that humans r born imperfect and nobody is perfect..we can paint the town with other ppls mistakes but who r we to judge them..take a mirror n look at ourselves..r we perfect? no one is..the least we could do is to accept the flaw of others as their shortcomings n to bookmark it as somethg that we should avoid... but im here willing to own up to it...n willing to work on it..though im sure there'll b more mistakes that ill encounter along this journey in Allah Al-mightys world...I hope and pray that it won't b a big Gaffe...so to those i might have offended un intentionally im sorry...trust me..maybe it was done unintentionally n hope u can consider the fact that im only human..bound to make mistakes..(cam lagu plak..hahaha)...n pls forsee this as my negative trait...don't we all have some?? unless of course ur miss goody too shoes..who's blind enough to say u never hurt anybody or do thgs that would offend someone...
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ok enough of all the ramblings..my cutie pie did somethg cute last night.....


the love of my life..both in la la land when the photo was taken

Weekend is here...(well almost)..Im loving it!!!!!!


Im desperate to upload my blog..bcoz i don't want to be gloomed by the depressing event that occurred previously...


So here's a perasan entry form me...enjoy u all....heheh


Al-fatihah

My dear friend just lost her beloved child last night...Airin Yasmin binti Hisyamuddin...she lost the battle againts her heart problem..I just came back from the funeral...It was sad..soooo sad infact for us..I could'nt control the tears anymore...Didie n Mudon were sooo strong..if I were to loose Harris..i don't know how id cope...God borrowed her to them for almost three years..she seem perfectly normal..i can still visualize her face..she looks a lot like Didie...Losing ur loved ones is never easy however u might be prepared for it...I feel for her...because im a mother too n to loose the smile that makes us melt...the voice that keeps us going is just soo hard...I don't thk i can write anythg more..its too painful...to Didie n Mudon n b strong for K1...n i quote ths from ninie from one of her mails in our SMSJ95 group

"bertuahlah ibu dan ayah, apabila anaknya diangkat/meninggal dunia ketika sebelum waktu balighnya, maka akan disediakan satu taman di dalam taman-taman syurga untuk ibu dan ayahnya..."

Didie.. we're always here for u if u ever get lonely n need someone to talk too...here's a photo of yasmin taken from Didie's friendster page...


AL-FATIHAH

In Loving memories..
Airin Yasmin Hisyamuddin


Specially dedicated to Didie,Mudon & K1



This is for my peoples who just lost somebody

Your best friend, your baby, your man, or your lady
Put your hand way up high
We will never say bye (no, no, no)
Mamas, daddies, sisters,
brothers, friends and cousins
This is for my peoples who lost their grandmothers
Lift your head to the sky 'cause
we will never say bye

As a child there were them times
I didn't get it but you kept me alive
I didn't know why I didn't show sometimes
On several mornings and "I miss you"
but we never talk to
All them grown full things
Separation brings
You never let me know it
You never let it show because
You loved me and obviously
There's so much more left to say
If you were with me today face to face

[ Chorus ]
I never knew I could hurt like this
And everyday life goes on like
"I wish I could talk to you for awhile"
"I wish I could try not to cry"
As time goes by
And soon as you reach a better place
Still I'll give the world to see your face
And I'm bragging right next to you
It feels like you gone too soon
The hardest thing to do is say bye
(Bye Bye [ 3x ] ) Bye bye

And you never got the chance to
see how good I've done
And you never got to see me back at number one
I wish that you were here to celebrate together
I wish that we could spend the holidays together

I remember when you used to tuck me in at night
With the Teddy Bear you gave to
me that I held so tight
I thought you were so strong
you can make it through whatever
It's so hard to accept the fact you're gone forever

[ Chorus ]
I never knew I could hurt like this
And everyday life goes on like
"I wish I could talk to you for awhile"
"I wish I could try not to cry"
As time goes by
And soon as you reach a better place
Still I'll give the world to see your face
And I'm bragging right next to you (?)
It feels like you gone too soon
The hardest thing to do is say bye
(bye bye bye bye bye bye [ 3x ] ) Bye bye

This is for my peoples who just lost somebody
Your best friend, your baby, your man, or your lady
Put your hand way up high
We will never say bye (no, no, no)
Mamas, daddies, sisters,
brothers, friends and cousins
This is for my peoples who lost their grandmother
Lift your head to the sky 'cause
we will never say bye

[ Chorus ]
I never knew I could hurt like this
And everyday life goes on like
"I wish I could talk to you for awhile"
"I wish I could find a way try not to cry"
As time goes by
And soon as you reach a better place
Still I'll give the world to see your face
And I'm bragging right next to you
It feels like you gone too soon
The hardest thing to do is say bye
(bye bye bye bye bye bye)bye bye


Points to ponder...

Kisah Rasulullah sebagai pengajaran


1) Kalau ada pakaian yang koyak, Rasulullah menampalnya sendiri tanpa perlu menyuruh isterinya. Beliau juga memerah susu kambing untuk keperluan keluarga mahupun untuk dijual.

2) Setiap kali pulang ke rumah, bila dilihat tiada makanan yang sudah siap di masak untuk dimakan, sambil tersenyum baginda menyinsing lengan bajunya untuk membantu isterinya di dapur. Sayidatina 'Aisyah menceritakan "Kalau Nabi berada di rumah, beliau selalu membantu urusan rumahtangga.

3) Jika mendengar azan, beliau cepat-cepat berangkat ke masjid, dan cepat-cepat pula kembali sesudah selesai sembahyang."

4) Pernah baginda pulang pada waktu pagi. Tentulah baginda amat lapar waktu itu. Tetapi dilihatnya tiada apa pun yang ada untuk sarapan. Yang mentah pun tidak ada kerana Sayidatina 'Aisyah belum ke pasar. Maka Nabi bertanya, "Belum ada sarapan ya Khumaira?"
(Khumaira adalah panggilan mesra untuk Sayidatina 'Aisyah yang bererti 'Wahai yang kemerah-merahan') Aisyah menjawab dengan agak serba salah, "Belum ada apa-apa wahai Rasulullah." Rasulullah lantas berkata, "Jika begitu aku puasa saja hari ini." tanpa sedikit
tergambar rasa kesal di wajahnya.

5) Sebaliknya baginda sangat marah tatkala melihat seorang suami memukul isterinya. Rasulullah menegur, "Mengapa engkau memukul isterimu?" Lantas soalan itu dijawab dengan agak gementar, "Isteriku sangat keras kepala. Sudah diberi nasihat dia tetap degil, jadi
aku pukul dia." "Aku tidak bertanya alasanmu," sahut Nabi s. a. w. "Aku menanyakan mengapa engkau memukul teman tidurmu dan ibu kepada anak-anakmu?"

6) Pernah baginda bersabda, "sebaik-baik lelaki adalah yang paling baik dan lemah lembut terhadap isterinya." Prihatin, sabar dan tawadhuknya baginda dalam menjadi ketua keluarga langsung tidak sedikitpun menjejaskan kedudukannya sebagai pemimpin umat.

Renung-renungkan.....

IM LOVING IT...

So i finally managed to allocate TIME to watch it....not at the movies thou..anticipated that much wud b censored...my take on it: I LUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRRRRVEEE it!!! maybe bcoz im an avid follower of the series..I fell in love wif the deco of carrie's refurbished apartment..I love cyan..

I love how the story ended..thou was disappointed that samantha left jared..n he did'nt even try to stop her.....then I wish that Lily (hahaha my maids name) wud have had more dialogue... On another note i didn't quite like Carrie in her wedding gown..firstly bcause i didn't fancy the gown n secondly WHATS WITH THE FEATHERS/BIRD!!!!

But i loved her manolo's ...Im droooling here...hehehehh ..wished Big n Carrie married in style as oppose to City hall..hahahah


I believe in our lives we hav these 4 characters of friends thou i can't thk of any of my friends that can fit into Carrie's shoe especially in the sense of her style and easy spirit....but it doesn't matter...If u give a thought..all of us have 4 set of friends that r uniquely different but stick together thru thick n thin...may u cherish these friends coz ull never know when ull need them..


I hope they'll b a sequel...some say they might...so foru guys who need to distress I recommend u to watch it!!!

Harris Mini Aqiqah

Last Weekend went back to JB..for harris mini Aqiqah..y it's mini..coz it was a very2 low key affair..x invite ramai pon..not that we didn't want to..... but it was kind of adhoc..aka short notice..due to my parents BZZZZNESS...imagine the night I went back (Friday) my mom was still not at home..she came back at almost 2am from work..bz preparing for the arrival of the two VVVVIP of the country..infact she had to be away on Saturday morning as well to entertain them..thank god the function was catered...


So amidst everythg the function went well and thank goodness harris behaved althou he was kind of stiff when weezal paraded him around the room..heheheh

haven't received the photos of him getting his hair cut thou...but here r the photos of the pre event, event n aftermath...btw thank god i found cupcakes at the very last moment...courtesy of Mama Lea Oven ..

Thankyou for frens who came..rozie n mancoi..wif cute n adorable icha(betul ke spelling) n hadeef yg malu2 konon..heheh mc karp n achik wif their kids...zakuan n qistina..
enjoy the pics..

Harris wif tok mama n nani

US..

Mc Karp & Achik wif Qistina (ada terselit gambar hadeef)

Semejayens Boys..wif rozie's pride n joy...