it's just one of those mornings when continuing ur sleep seems the only option (u wished for)...its gloomy outside..no sunshine..u cud hear the pit pat of the rain drizzling..the air is soo refreshing..snuggling under the comforter..it just feels heavenly..until the phone alarms chants a stooopid song... its 7.15am..n u HAVE TO GO TO WORK....i dread that thot...so cursing silently wif eyes half shut...i march my way to the toilet..grabbing my towel n nearly banged my face on the toilet door..aaah..reality hits..n its only Tuesday...
what have i been up to these past few days...to sum it up..was unwell most of the days last week n so was my dear fiance'....he was worst..had fever for days...attended b'day party for a 4 yr old..my fiance's nephew...went back to Bangi...my aunt n family finally came back from UK for good..(i presume) so there were ton's n ton's of ppl who came..n the fact that Bangi is my parents retreat home a.k.a 2nd home....made the hse incomplete at catering a lot of ppl..i was at the verge of passing out..as my company held our Sports Carnival that day n i played netball (ppl always expect u can play wen u hav the height)...n during the finals it downpoured..after halting the game for sometime the reff decided to continue n we played in the pouring rain..we were practically wet all over..so tired from that n had to continue attending to ppl that nite made me abt to collapse..thank god i had a very helpful bro..one u can rely on..the other one u can rely on wen its abt having fun..ths one..ill give two thumbs up..he did the washing..n was very2 helpful...if it were'nt for him id had surrender immediately...
next day...after patiently waiting for melody which i normally pass... i had to watch it as the golden celebrity couple had split up..n r in the midst of divorcing..who else mr yusry n erra ler...its just sooo saddening wen a perfect match just could'nt bear to live wif each other anymore...what went wrong????? please tell me someone???...n the fact that their facing the process together..makes it all soo painful..it was calm..yet ...throbing...the scenario was as if yusry was nursing erra after a major operation or heading home after a miscarriage...but reality is ...they're goin thier separate ways...n only they know y..i know a lot of ppl want them back 2gether..me inclusive..n yes the chances r there..but from my point of view n after much reading...the problem was inflicted by yusry side..n if they were to reconcile..then it has to come from him as he who made the decision to end a fairy tale wedding...but that's only my point of view.. a lesson for me..n all couples getting married....yes we want a perfect fairy tale wedding n will go to the extend of giving our all..but its not that that'll keep u togother..not how much ur dowry cost..or how big the rock on ur finger is n how extravagnt gardenly beautiful ur wedding is...its the communication n attention u give each other is wats important in order for u to stay intact...as they (yusry n erra) have proven...a dowry of RM33,333.33, RM 100k ring..d most extravagant wedding wif endless guest....cud only make it by the 2 yr mark..not even reaching 3..so ppl can comment how or wat u buy..how u look...n how ungrand or simple ur wedding is..but its not them who has holes in the pocket..or who emptied thier accounts for ur event...its u..so..do it reasonably n most importantly pray Allah will bless ur union...
b4 the hectic weekend ended...had a family affair futsal..wif my fiance's cuzzie...later attended my sis outlaw hubby's suprise bday party... a curtain fall for my tiring weekend...here's a photo of me n fiance at the party.....
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